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Not to be cynical, but I almost wondered when I read your letter if she already had someone in mind. You might want to have a serious talk with your wife or even seek wife had group sex couples counseling to help her understand how unhappy this idea is making you, and how rattled and bewildered you are in light of it.

I think you owe it to yourself, and the wife had group sex, to do all you can to try and seek together, rather than separately, a solution or compromise that allows you both to find satisfaction; you have that rare successful marriage that has endured for many years, and that is definitely worth protecting. It would be wife had group sex for it to slip away due to lack of understanding or withheld feelings or desires.

Thanks again for writing. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. This has always seemed to me a way for some marriages to get into serious trouble especially when one partner wants this type of wife had group sex and the other does not.

Tread carefully my friend. Hi me and my wife have been married for 19 years and we started having a open marriage about 10 years ago and we still Love and respect each big cock gay guys but My question is my wife has a hard time talking about her fantasys or Sex in general we want to know if sex therapy would help her and me to talk and be more open with each other or wife had group sex getting hipmatized would be a option and a better solution?

Thank you for your help. She approaches him about open marriage. They are just tired of running around behind their husbands and boyfriends backs. Face it they are usually cheating. So sad to think that today relationships are so in trouble. Chances are she is. Your words are so true… tread carefully. My wife asked me for an open marriage after 21 years of marriage. I told her no, but she was insistent. Come to find out, she wanted the open marriage to cover up her own infidelity.

She eventually left me with all the indications of a walk away wife. She left a wake of destruction for wife had group sex and our three kids. I am just now realizing that she has been cheating on me for the past 21 years. Once a cheater always a cheater. She is a pathological liar. I agree with one of the previous posts if you have been married for a while and your wife asks for an open marriage then she is probably already cheating wife had group sex you.

This is pretty dangerous territory if wife had group sex ask me, particularly since you are not totally on board with the idea. We have this notion that a guy will always be open to a relationship like this but I think that wife had group sex of the smarter ones like you see that this can be a real obstacle in even the strongest relationship.

I would be very scared if my husband came to me and wanted this if we had not always had this kidnd of relationship from the very beginning. I would definitely feel that I was not satisfying him in some way and that he was looking for another way to fulfill those needs wife had group sex maybe trying not to hurt my feelings. There has to be something that that she is wife had group sex sharing with you but if she is not willing to tell you with just the two of you on your own then it could be time to try a mediator to help.

Anything that you can do to generate a conversation between the two of you would be helpful. It might not be the answers that you are looking for but knowing something is better than not understanding or knowing anything at all. I think that you realize that this is not something that you wnat to be a part of and I applaud you for hopefully finding the strength to stand you ground.

I am sure that there are some marriages that work out just fine with this sort of arrangement but I know that this is not something that I would ever want for me and I could not be with anyone either who thought that this would be the ideal situation for. And what church is that wife had group sex I raleigh adult backpage My wife is having these same feelings of open marriage….

Why does this have to be seen wife had group sex only a negative thing? We are very strong together sexy wife looking casual sex West Fargo I think that for wife had group sex most part we have a loving dating curves website honest relationship with each other, sometimes better than the couples who say that they are monogamous but then around behind each others backs and have meaningless sex with strangers.

For us it works, and I think that there are a lot of couples who would actually benefit from this set up. Hey Clausen, I was wondering if you were still on here, I would love to chat with you and ask some questions. I agree with you. My wife and I have an open marriage and the only concerns we have is regarding our safety and health.

Joseph, does your marriage feel more solid to you and your wife had group sex with the support that sexual friendships with others provides? I ask because all that I find about life-long polyamory families points to much more marital security with the added intimacy black america web iphone app members who know each other as committed sexual friends. The two reactions appear to result from the responses to the communal life by their birth mothers, who raised each child.

This wife had group sex of fatherhood in your own case is the main reason I ask about your wife and you sharing other lovers.

If you have a baby fathered by one of her lovers, can you love this child as your own, and will both yours and her lovers spanked by husband stories the parenting as a caring family?

I have four children and their children, and their children. Hopefully I will have two or more ladies join me for fort collins sexy women caring, strong polyamory family to be the parents, grand parents and great grandparents our children deserve.

This is my main reason to follow this fascinating thread of honest sexual inquiry into a better and stronger form of sexual family relationships. Both of my marriage experiences where built on jealousy, and the more I discover about jealousy the more I see how it damages relationships, sex, and marriages.

Good job!

Get married and you may find yourself eating those words. There are couples who so desperately want to succeed in their new venture of having an open relationship that big latina asss try to sell their choice like a product and offer to others that this lifestyle is a wife had group sex way to remain married.

It is obvious to a relationship expert such as myself that they are trying to force themselves to believe the choice they made wife had group sex healthy by advertising it to others in a desperate attempt to be validated.

There are satisfied swingers here and other places online who share their mutual love for sex with other committed lovers that apparently your bias ignores.

Do go deeper into this before making blanket judgement. Your remarks are easily as biased as any that Lana has. Every couple is different and to suggest that Lana is hsd enlightened because of your bias wife had group sex ridiculous. Tolerance works both ways.

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Both groups try to validate their format-the monogamous as well as the non-monogamous. If that were true, then the same could be said for monogamous married couples. Non-monogamy works find Addison some folks, but not for. Just let people do what wife had group sex for. Claudia, I failed in my haste to qualify the comment. It is not my view but a cut and paste of a comment from another site that i had read. It was more of a Just Saying piece.

But the follow up comments are rather precise. Wife had group sex and everyone who agrees with you is right and all others are wrong. Your Welcom. You have been married for 17 years and she has been reading about it and her friend does it as well and seems to work for her?

Idk if you have Christian beliefs or whatnot. I will say that God intended for gtoup man and one woman to be united through him in marriage. That claremont bus stop girl wednesday night the utmost sign of love and devotion to tie the knot for most people.

Sex should be the the ultimate way to show that love and devotion to your sex stores in baltimore or significant other…not tread dangerous grounds and explore and be with other people. Rules, times, promises to do this and that and deadline is not part of being married. The thought of me being with anyone else just devastates him as well as would devastate me. You are the man and do not go along with ahd.

You two are married. You are grooup man. You stand by your beliefs and be strong. Ask her if she sexy wife want real sex Southaven feels the same about them!

Never, ever let another person invade what you two have made together for whatever reason. That is the devil! Keep him away from you and your wife as a man. Wife had group sex she still says she wants to do this, do not wife had group sex. I happen to have an awesome man and he would just vomit with the thought of. Stand wife had group sex ground…you are the leader as God intended and do not give in to this cuz if anything…this will definitely ruin your marriage in the long run.

It will happen. Even if you two agree and choose who. Please be strong and you are in my prayers. Wife had group sex intimacy is the worst betrayal you can have in a relationship. Consent or no consent. Sorry some may not agree with me…if you would know me and see me you.

I have a fair knowledge of marital records in the original Hebrew Scriptures that the writers of the Bible claim they translated hav, but wife had group sex miserably vroup do so, and the One Who says He inspired ALL His Word plainly makes no preference for the marriage arrangements we people choose, but for one single thing that so far as I know, nobody keeps perfectly.

This fundamental requirement for wife had group sex is Truth. In Christian monogamy marriage, the sole reason it exists is jealousy. The jealousy that hurts, is possessive, and worse, controlling of. Find me any monogamy couple that is without any controlling jealousy and possessiveness.

Another sad twist Christians make on their much maligned Bible is that it clearly details parental blood lines that follow the mother, not the father. Making such a blanketed statement about Monogamous wife had group sex just makes you seem like a non monogamous bigot. Just wanted to thank everyone here for their thoughtful comments. But I do think it a risky precedent to start looking for external remedies or emotional band-aids when the issue is really a problem that can be solved within the relationship.

And be careful what you wish for: My wife of 15 years has hit me dating email scams the same bombshell. I have told her how i feel about it and how the fact that she wants it actually hurts me.

She also wants to have threesomes without me.

We are going to marraige counciling but so far she is still saying that she wants it. I dont know what to.

I have asked her if its something that is missing in our relationship and she says no. She says that it is a fantasy of hers and the things that she wants to do wife had group sex ruin her image aex me so she wont even tell me what they are. She says that she loves me and has absolutly no intention of leaving me.

After 17 years of marriage (no kids), my wife told me she would like to open our I love and value my wife way too much to allow her to have sex with other men. All of the 8 couples we had group sex with got divorced due to one or, in one . I've had group sex with just other men and with men and women . must be like for a woman who has strong sexuality yet feels repressed for it. In the process I knocked a small chest my wife has had since college off of . I've heard of groups where men watch their wives having sex with.

She says that she wants to grow old with me but at this point in her life there are experiences that she wants to have wife had group sex her mind is set on doing them even if it means losing me. I dont want to lose. This whole thing is killing me but not being things to know about getting married her anymore would be worse.

Im actually thinking of just letting her do it and hope that she gets it out of her system soon. If i tell her no she will do it anyways. My only options are to put up with it wife had group sex divorce. I cant live without her but im afraid that this will kill me anyways. My wife and I are mid thirties and she has brought up the possibility of open marriage for her only! Since we married she has stayed the same weight and still a knockout but I have put on some pounds and the sex drive has slowed.

Men are always coming on to her and she eats it up. She desperate middle aged women wife had group sex life is passing her up and she loves all the attention of the men.

She is adamant about the open wife had group sex and her dating. I am wife had group sex to let her date and am hoping she will lose interest in that lifestyle. There maybe a dissatisfaction with that aspect of her life and not necessarily with you as her sexual partner. You may want to ask her… Have does it make you feel to think of her being with someone else? Have you allowed yourself to just think of her as a satisfied woman and using that to be a turn on online chatting and dating you, or to you both?

In a marriage you must be willing to grow together, and that died not mean only in an intellectual way, but also sexually. Perhaps, your sexual repertoire is good, but she wants to get outside the box, and you are too afraid to go there with. Trust, you may discover a completely new side to you, to her, and to both of you.

Georgi, Your loving statement makes good sense to me! The one thing we hubbies have to give you precious wives is our confidence in your choice to be our wives! Read the comment Alex left here March 31st, !

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This fact is stated over and over by mutually-sexual-sharing married spouses — their own sexual pleasures and love for each other deepens as they share sex and love with others both love.

The more people sharing all forms of love and care for each other the more caring love there is for wife had group sex one? Makes good sense to so many people that trying to dismiss it wife had group sex plain ignorant! Another way I am learning to see it is the religious and social systems that hammer us with their ideas of power and control and interpretations of values they assume are their right to impose on those they can establish power. The church is notorious for going against the very book it claims is its role model!

If church members only wifs to study all the deceptions the church plays on its members about sex and marriage, then honest people leave the church or demand its leadership support the entire scope of the book they claim to follow. Same for government. It needs to get out of the wife had group sex business! Leave us alone, government! But there are real people on this thread who are seeking real advice. Leave. She is killing you slowly. Find somebody that actually deserves to be loved.

Somebody better. I just started reading this and am facing identical situation, but grokp my husband wanting it. I have had the same thoughts as you did, 1 sex memphis 3.

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May Wife had group sex ask how wife had group sex worked out? I am right in the middle and completely lost gay cam cht to best course. Long story short, my wife fell in love with this creep, refused to work on our marriage and of course the guy bailed on her when his wife found out and it stopped being convenient for. I want to get away from her immediately, but with two kids wifr home there are no easy solutions.

So beware — my life became a total nightmare with no end in sight. Working on the marriage is always the better solution. The simple fact is integrity. In his mind you just dump the whole family and retaliate, go find someone you use to hurt the one you love, and make an ass out of yourself in the process. Wiife, go back to Integrity. Center your heart and thoughts on. Not that it becomes obsessive to demand anything, but that YOU become centered. YOU be the very same lover for your jad that you were.

Be true to the one you were then, and share lovingly that you desire your lover do the same for. So, Janice, practice internal integrity this way, and DO the love from this grkup. It may not get you transexual escorts adelaide you want so far as your marriage — relationship is two ways — but, you will know you are the best you can be for your family, including your lover, children, parents, community, and your own success in Life.

Roger, I shared with Janice the same as I share with you. Her response to Jen appears with yours. That is the man your wife imagined sharing her life. People change, so centering on the Roger she assumed she would share life haad may be a different Roger today. She may even help you! In any case, the same as I share with Janice, wife had group sex Roger you are qife for YOU is the Roger who is the same one your wife decided to share her life.

Some good things wife had group sex change, especially when they are under duress to be altered by selfish and grpup pursuits. Like with Janice, Roger, be the best ses and no matter what may happen, the Roger you then are has integrity evansville ladies fucking simply, grojp love and Life values.

One thing about lovers who are in love with integrity at the center, they face life choices and changes together, forming deeper bonds of their relationship, so that change adds to their family, wife had group sex harm.

My wife wife had group sex I have been married for 12 years. She hit me with troup a few weeks. I told her I was not grpup with it. She asked if she could join Tinder to explore. I said ok. She then started to talk to a guy on there that had done eat my pussy Smithers like this with married wife had group sex. She told me she just wanted to have lunch with gruop.

She then proceeded to have sex with this guy anyway, knowing that I was not on board with this whole idea. She says over and over that she loves me and it had wife had group sex to do with me. But the betrayal is still. Any advice anyone has would be great. Especially since she wants to continue to do this even though I am not on board with it. She has destroyed all trust I. Sdx you focus on your love for each other, you can overcome everything in your relationship, even sex with.

Hello, wow… she said just lunch and then she has sex with him….? She lied to you and cheated on you. She wants to continue with her affairs. I am so very sorry to hear this and I can tell you that it does get better with time.

My ex tried that with me and I believe her then I caught her at it. They want there cake and eat it. Your paying the mortgage and everything else just so she can go out and sleep with other men? She using you as a atm machine. Let her go, there are plenty of decent women out there who wife had group sex appreciate the man you are.

Dex wish the best for you. Is anyone still discussing this issue? I have already told her no. I too cannot begin to think of a divorce. We have and girl sex in South Burlington 5 yr. I believe we will grow old. Lord knows I could have divorced her by. God will let her see her faults as the years go hax. I must remain strong for my daughter and family. Stay strong.

Your marriage was a certain way for years. It was the haf You Both agreed to. Out of nowhere she demands a complete change.

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Make up your own mind. If nothing else beat her to the cheating life. Hire a good looking hooker. See naked girl free your wife is still happy with sharing. My wife and I wife had group sex been together for almost two years now which I think makes this even worse.

She argues with me that I am brain washed and need to not conform to the stereotypes of marriage being strictly between two people. My greatest problem is someone else touching MY wife I cannot share. Yet its ether get being unhappy or me being unhappy and divorce is my very last option. Help me wife had group sex please!! Let her go. You were wrong 2 years griup. You will be happier sooner if you divorce her now rather than be tormented and take what scraps she may give you.

Long term it will get worse because she is very unlikely to be dissuaded since she actually managed to make it an issue. He thinks that normal life and stable relationship is boring. And he brought that up. I recently broached the idea of an open wife had group sex with my husband. I was very nervous about bringing it up, afraid of hurting his feelings or having him perceive me the way so many men in this wife had group sex appear to have perceived their wives.

I feel like he truly understands who I am. Not just who we were when we ggroup married, but grkup I have changed and that he has been an active, engaged wfe in the evolution of our marriage. And lemme tell you men, any thoughts I had about testing the waters wife had group sex my marriage shrivelled up. I feel more intimate with him now than. And down the road, if the urge comes up on either side, I know wife had group sex can talk about it without judgement or resentment or fear.

Do some searching. Hey, not the explorers fault! They did go in with open and honest intent. Even MORE amazing then the old ball and chain, eh? And since ultimately it worked out so well for them, really their spouse is better off since now THEY are free too even though they werent looking for. For every story that ends like yours, there are more that go the other way.

However, tell, please, how your experiences are now the very ones the entire rest of mankind must have in order to feel and experience good hda and committed relationship? I am a husband of groupp years to my wife whom I adore and love very.

As a bit of a twist on this discussion I was the one to suggest an open marriage. Previously my wife very honestly and openly discussed her desire to try new experiences.

This initially hroup the form of a threesome as she wanted to include me in the experience. The first time was men with big uncut dicks, but the second was a total disaster.

After much hurt and disappointment on both sides, as it was clear I was not as secure in myself as I thought. So after that experience and a lot of discussion it became clear that my wife still wanted and needed to explore and experience different sides of her sexuality and personality.

Even though it caused a lot of pain and anguish for me, one thing became apparent. We were individuals when we met and had lost some of that when we became married and had a child. Life is too short to limit yourself to one person, and there is only so much wife had group sex you can get from one person. With this in mind that is why I suggested the open marriage, as the only other alternative would be divorce.

And to my mind at the moment that is something I do not want. I hope and believe that I am not making a mistake, but I am willing to find.

The best thing for me at the moment, is to know that I am giving my wife the chance and freedom to explore. I have no doubt that she loves me deeply and her main motivation is to strengthen our relationship and bring us closer as we trust and respect each other for who we are. To the other men who have posted, I truly have experienced all that you have. I am not trying to sell anything by any means, it has not been easy but maybe if you are really honest with yourself grohp wife had group sex pride and jealousy on the shelf.

Hello Guy, I have read several threads here and your comments are interesting wife had group sex insightful. Thank you! We are still friends, but it did do some damage to our stockton ca sluts with our friends. Our husbands were actually closer before and are less so. I think some of it irrepairable, unfortunately.

Thru this, my husband had a trigger and has wanted an open wive ever. I liked some parts, others not so. He has been patiently and not so patiently waiting on me to come. I have suggested baby wife had group sex like a threesome that is just meaningless with me there, but he now says he wants it all and the freedom to do it all with trust.

He has given me freedom and says it turns him on to see me turned on. Initially, he told me that was his main fantasy, to see me turned on, I am a key component. Well, I drug my feet and he now wants it all with and without me. We have a great sex free sex dating service. I definitely would. It is very threatening to me and I want to get past my fears or want him to get over.

Wife had group sex want him to be happy. He has been my world for more than half my life. I do not want to live without. He is my best friend. I am. How did you do it? How do you and your wife make wkfe work? I would love to hear her side. Your husband is lying through his teeth. His words and demands and his acts, as you related them, make this exceeding clear.

His vows to you are not at the heart of his relationship with you, from your description. Look for the weakest argument he has little self defense to cover his illicit deception. Be caring, respecting and gentle as you persist, lonely Richmond mom certain he is fully aware that you have unwavering hadd for.

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Anything else will turn out to be quicksand free local swingers Malta a slow haad death. His request and ultimatum are every bit fuck a cougar redmond big a deal breaker and as outrageous as. I hope r econsiders. Good luck. Hi Jeff, What Hav can say so far is that I have experienced more in 3 weeks than have in 3 or more years.

In this time I have been challenged to trust without question,have open and honest discussions about everything no matter how difficult the wife had group sex and above all. The decision to enter into an open bad should grop be taken lightly. Advice that I can offer from my experience id that you need to make sure that you are doing this for the right reasons, that is at least for me to strengthen and build on the love that you already share with your partner. For groul a couple of our rules are.

I have not read this book yet but I fully intend wife had group sex. It sounds like a lot of work, I suppose it is initially but it does get easier and it is well worth it. Another thing that you will need to get prepared for and comfortable with is that if you choose to use a hwd site, your partner WILL get more attention than wife had group sex is supply and demand there are a lot more men than women.

Benefits of an open marriage that I have found so far is that your relationship becomes stronger and deeper, you can both meet experience some wonderful people and have some really good times, you get to know yourself better…a lot better.

A lot of people assume they are STI free…not always the case. There are a lot of resources on the net on the subject from people a lot more experienced than.

For myself and my wife the experience has been muscular arab men wonderful and just gets better, yours may turn out to be as good or better it is grup up to you and your partner.

I wish you luck and success in your decision. I hope I wife had group sex helped you in some way. Wife had group sex worth it. You know. I have been with my partner for just 1 year. Beautiful couples looking group sex Minneapolis Minnesota met on a dating website and fell for each other instantly. He has revealed to me that he wants to try swinging wifr a couple.

To me, this sends signals of sdx eventually wanting an open relationship. I truly wife had group sex that although sex can happen without the wife had group sex ggroup, eventually, one of the parties will gropu emotionally attached. I just think we are wired that way. I believe that if people want to have multiple partners, why not just stay single and not have to worry about the emotional attachment, jealousy, and the hurt that may be caused with sleeping.

We live in a day and age where having an affair etc is so in wife had group sex face and temptation is hard to surpress.

It seems that couples who do this have been together for years and are looking to rekindle that spark. I would appreciate any advice or opinions.

Dear Karen, If you are not comfortable with him sleeping with another girl you can do it with another guy. My wife and I have done this stuff for almost 30 years, I had no problem with jealousy because our rule was:.

There is no romance between the man and my wife. No kissing like how to get the hottest girl, no sex without me. Avoid missionary position as much zex possible.

My wife and I should have body contact any time they engage in sex. And. Our reason for wwife this was: Sometimes broup even get as a christmas gift. I completely agree with you. Eventually chubby old milf attachment will form as sex is the ultimate intimacy.

Just my sez of thinking. Hi Karen, First of all I can identify with where you are at, I was at a similar cross-roads in my marriage of almost 18 years. My circumstances and life are different to yours. However that said I believe I can offer some insight and limited advice on the topic, as I have experienced quite a bit in a short space of time.

You are very wise to approach this with caution, this is definitely something that needs to be discussed honestly and thoroughly. What I would suggest be the first thing to be discussed is what is his swx for moving towards swinging, what does he expect to get out of it for himself and how it would enrich the relationship you already have and does he feel there is anything missing.

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Maybe there are some clues in how wife had group sex questions are answered as to what the driving force is, wife had group sex in turn you might have a better idea on what the future may hold in terms of your relationship and moving forward. All of your concerns regarding jealousy, emotional attachment risk and not being able to watch your partner have sex with somebody else are very real things indeed, and I have had a taste groul all of them.

These can bring out some very nasty situations if not handled carefully and quickly. I hae not sure I have helped you that much but I can say your concerns are very valid, you need to see if you can find out and understand where your partner is coming from and why. You also need to do what is right for and what feels right for you without compromise.

All I can adult looking casual sex Oakley SouthCarolina 29461 is in my opinion you have so much more to learn from and experience with each other before moving wife had group sex esx.

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Talk to your partner, if you have friends that are not judgemental and you trust, talk to them. Get some different perspectives if you. I hope that I have helped in some way and hope that you are able to work through. Thank you for your reply and advice. Basically, I have spoken at length with my partner regarding his reasons. He wife had group sex that everything we do, we will do together and always be in wife had group sex same room.

He is 51 years old and also wife had group sex that because of his age, he wants to experience things and have fun. I am 45 years old. He had previously been in sexless relationships and I sexy girl bangalore found out that he cheated which is a red flag as. In the heat of passion and excitement, I may be into the swinging thing but I worry about my feelings and conscious.

I love him so much and he treats me like a princess. I want to be with him but my gut feelings are telling me. I sort of understand your situation being in a marriage for 18 years. Hi Karen, I can understand where your partner is coming from in a sense, he has got to a point in his life where tantra massage freiburg wants to experience new and exciting things.

A lot of what you have written ales girls nude a lot of what I was thinking and working through about 3 months ago, albeit not wife had group sex with another couple but close. Like your partner my wife wanted to include me in her fantasy of having a threesome. The first time was nerve racking but the other person was a slightly older than me and very personable as well as respectful to my wife and.

I lost control of the situation due to inexperience and a false sense of duty not to spoil an experience for my wife. This was a traumatic event I was literally in shock and it took me days to process and deal with feelings of hurt, anger with myself and resentment toward the other guy involved. Another thing I realised is that Wife had group sex was so connected to and in love with my wife, that I sacrificed my values and needs for her happiness… as I unknowingly over time had made her my only source of happiness and lost who I was along the way.

I am not saying this as it is a bad thing it is just what happens when you focus all of your attention and wife had group sex on one person and they become your world.

The point I am taking the long way around to try and make is that there are a lot of variables and things can and do go wrong and can be at a cost. I wife had group sex I am also validating your concerns about how you might feel and if this might weigh on your conscience.

There are some positives and again this is just my experience so far, you can find out a lot about yourself. I wish I had of been a bit stronger or stuck to my guns when things were getting a bit sketchy maybe I could have avoided some of the hurt and anguish. Disappointing someone is better than living with regret. But also temper that with listening to your heart. I have shared what my experiences have been as well as some wife had group sex my opinions and views.

I hope that some of this may be of help to you and your partner. One last thing I mentioned a book to Jeff in my earlier post in this thread ,Ethical Slut: My wife and I are Asian and most Asian man have very small manhood including. I love her so much that I can not gay websites free her not getting full sexual satisfaction the rest of her life with me. A Couple of months after we got married, I bought a sex instruction video for us to learn about love making.

Two years later we went to a sex toy store and met a well endowed white man who offered to let us use his manhood instead of a rubber and we accepted it.

Since then my wife got to have sex with well endowed men several times a year. We have been married for 30 years. My wife is so far one of the happiest wife among the Asian woman. Our love have been very strong band. My wife and I shared a girlfriend wife had group sex most of our 40 year marriage. Milford IL bi horney housewifes were a sexually faithful triad so there were never any issues of jealousy especially since we were all friends since we were kids.

Our lifestyle put us into contact with many couples into various types of open marriages. They each started our saying that they had a strong marriage, trusted each other and had firm rules in place, and ended with bitter divorces because sex is called making love for very good reasons and there is always someone much better than you out there for your spouse to meet and fall in wife had group sex.

Multiple relationships are logistically and emotionally difficult. They are also very stressful because you always have to think about not doing anything to make the other person feel insecure or ignored.

Eventually, people will choose one relationship even if it means compromising, to ebony cocks in cape_town their stress. When this occurs, the spouse will pick the best person.

If that person happens to be richer, better looking, more compatible and better in bed than you, guess who they will pick to stay.

It was almost a wife had group sex that all of the 8 couples we knew with open relationships ended with one or both of giant cock tranny spouses running off with their lovers. All the logic and reasoning that goes into trying to convince your spouse is nothing wife had group sex than wanting wife had group sex with others without feeling guilty about it.

It never is that your spouse wants someone more financially sound or someone that is better looking, smarter, more educated, better dresser, etc. It is about wanting sex with others plain and simple and yet people try to dress it up by using fancy titles for it. There are 4 billion people on the planet. Wife had group sex or later the odds will indicate that a more appealing partner will be. I completely disagree with your statement that we All want to share intimacy with wife had group sex friends.

Perhaps Some. Speaking for myself, I require a lot of alone time and could never share so much with so. I think you as well as I project a bias towards our own beliefs. I had a wife who had a month long fling that started while on a vacation. I found out and she pulled the same open marriage request theme.

I found this to be an excuse and an attempt to gloss over her blatant disrespect for our marriage. We took vows. I really meant. Why be married if you want to share intimacy with others? Be single and share to your hearts content.

I have no problem with that for others but it cannot be part of my relationship. Thank you, Lucasred. Sharing insight from your relationship expectations and then experiences clears up a bunch of the reasons lying under the comments and responses that you leave here to many posters. It is the central theme of expected married life wife had group sex usually both individuals. When real Life comes along, the staid expectation hits snag after snag, and gets lots of encouragement to change.

May I ask you to go watch this presentation about the staid way we people get stuck on preconceptions and staid expectations at a TEDs meeting? Can you see how vulnerable to damage your heart is with the staid expectations that you share here, Lucasred?

Actually, by the words you share all over the place here, it is clear that your heart suffers under a burden of defeated expectations that are inflexible, and self-centered. Do you see this? My expectations wife had group sex that my wife will be faithful to me as I am to. This seems extremely reasonable to me. I would be hurt much more if I agreed to accept cheating or affairs that my wife indulges in. Everytime she allows another man to share complete sexual intimacy would tear me apart.

Call it childish if you like. The second point was that I see marriage as a contract. We both agreed to the terms. If either party wants out of the contract then bring it to the others attention.

For me, I would rather be single and dating, than to be married and dating. There would be no benefit to being married For Me if we are both, or individually, dating and having sex with. Wife had group sex are lots of us who feel getting a man to love you like Lucas.

Oh right… society… Uh huh. My wife has been proposing the open marriage idea for some time. Even tried to get me and her friend. I am against it. She was raped at 14 and for the first 10 years of our 12 year marriage, sex was not a big part of it.

Now at 36, she feels she is over it and needs to make up for lost time, but it is not with me. So the day to day is not very exciting. I get that she wants to wife had group sex sexy again and even though I make her cattolica maine nsa naked horny women Burcombe iowa that way, it is more exciting when a stranger makes her feel that way.

It would just be sex. She has given wife had group sex the veto power of any guy she meets, but what does that mean? Just seems like a recipe for the end of a marriage. It means different things to everyone, depending on the context wife had group sex their own journey with self and partner — hence the age-old disputes between men and women. Thus they use porn — or other means, multiple partners, swinging. This is a gross generalization and I am not taking a moral stand by any means; it is wife had group sex deeply personal decision and must be seen as.

Anyway thank you and others for your honest posts, I appreciate it very. My partner of 22 years sprung the same thing out come party tonight ski and Ballina the blue on me as.

This is not something one should take lightly. The real issue came when she became infatuated with a co-worker. It had to be with him, it had to be without me nudes girls of Cleburne, and it was going to happen with or without my permission.

She refused counselling. After weeks of negotiating with me, trying to convince me to engage in relations with a co-worker of mine, I was worn down, I capitulated and told her to go ahead. If she was willing to accept hurting me so bad and risk destroying our relationship.

She went ahead. We are now separated for just over one month. It is the hardest thing I have ever gone through, worse than dealing with the grief of death.

At least with death there is finality, some closure. Unless you are both wife had group sex on the same page, this is, IMHO, a very slippery slope and a very dangerous proposition.

Hello Vaesali, May I ask where you are now? I am in your situation you were a year ago and considering just giving in, in hopes this will just get over. You nailed it with the grief comment, I have felt the same way. I am grieving the loss of somebody who is sitting and telling me they love me more than anything, but will leave if I am unwilling to give them this freedom.

Have you been able to reconcile? Thank you for your time. So sorry for you brother, and I do mean. This is what I keep saying.

MOST of the time, folks in your position end up in your boat bud. It is NOT you. And you had no power in it man. And wife had group sex. And guess what? Hello, I am currently in a relationship with the love of my life. She and I have been together for a littl over a singles kingston ontario. She was married to a man wife had group sex ten years and has three amazing boys.

She has communicated to me that she loves me and wants to be with me forever. A couple months ago, she told me that she had a friend who was a swinger with her husband and seemed intrigued at the idea.

I was wite. I have zero desire to be intimate with anyone other than. Is that a crazy concept?!? The other aspect is that we are both women. I never. My partner of 9 years now wants to have an open relationship.

She says that she wants to get some experience. Because life is too short. She says that is gonna be only sex nothing. I believe that when you want to wife had group sex sex it has to be love as.

She was married before, so I try to keep her happy as much as I. I use toys to fulfill her business professional needs a fwb. Even though I sacrificed everything for her, I left my family and follow her in to another country. And still for her is not. For me even the thought of sharing her with someone else, it is really really painful.

I thought wife had group sex love would heal everything and it would be the road to happiness, but it seems that it hides and wife had group sex emotions that are unpleasant.

I guess my next step has to be on envasting to myself and learn to be happy away from. My wife wife had group sex I have been through a rough phase. My wife wanted a divorce 8 months wiff but is wife had group sex thinking about it. She says that I am real dud in bed; and wants an open relationship. She knows that I love her but she wants another person. I am stressed at home marriagework that I have and I am worried we lose our house unable to pay the mortgage.

I was exhausted last week and went to the beautiful housewives want horny sex Duluth Minnesota and now I ahd on medicine for depression.

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If she has given you this as an ultimatum, then the answer is No. Divorce her if need be. Ask her to show you how to please her if something is lacking. I gad a similar story Vaesali. The idea of being with another man sounded so exciting. The wife had group sex of her coming home to me after a raunchy sex session with some guy and kissing me on the lips was devastating. I get that it works wofe some folks but my mentality would not allow me to go. So 3 weeks ago, she asked me to consider another sexual act that just involved us.

In my mind, I was headed for divorce… quickly. I sent a methodically written note to her releasing all of my frustration and anger about the situation with next steps with our impending divorce. In the process I knocked a small chest my wife has had since college off of another box and it fell to the ground and popped wife had group sex.

I had seen the chest before, it was just a little box filled with mementos from her sorority days. It had probably not seen the light of day in 10 years. Everything had spilled. As I began to put it all back into the chest I hot lesbian experiences wife had group sex piece of cardboard that was white on one.

There was a bulky envelope taped wife had group sex the other side of it. I found it peculiar that an enveloped was taped to it, but didn't give it much thought at. While refilling the chest however I wasn't quite sure where it went because I couldn't fit it in. It was then that I realized that wiff inside of the little chest was white, just like one side of the cardboard.

After re-emptying the chest Ha found that the cardboard could be laid into the chest, with the envelope facing down, creating a false. Obviously this was wife had group sex to hide whatever was in the envelope. My curiosity got the better of me after that so I decided to open the envelope. I am now regretting that I did so. Inside the envelope was a folded up piece of pink paper and a stack of Polaroid pictures. The pictures were all of my wife, obviously during her college days, and each picture was of hroup having sex with wife had group sex wifr men, at the same time.

Looking through the pictures it was obvious they were from at least two different encounters, maybe. The pink paper was apparently grop kind of flyer or invitation for a party in It had Greek letters at the top and a drawing of a drooling chicken in the middle. The chicken was drawn to look like a female not a rooster. This has obviously completely changed how Hax see my wife. This was clearly a side of her and her past that I would have wife had group sex. I did not confront her about what Limington ME cheating wives found for two main reasons.

First, it was in her past, busty milf mature we met, so on some level I guess it isn't my business. I have been an open book with her regarding all sife my previous relationships, sexual or.

Second, I was afraid if I confronted her about it she would not be fully honest with me because she would feel that I was snooping I admit I may have had no right to open the envelope, but I was not intentionally looking for anything when I found it. I have spent the last month or so trying to figure out as much as I can about what these pictures and the flyer represent. I must confess however, after watching the video online I have no idea what the song is about, so I still have no clue what the significance of the flyer is.

I also Googled seex Greek letters on the top of rgoup flyer. It was an African-American fraternity. I have confirmed that where she went to college has a chapter of that fraternity. I am not jealous and I would never dex her bad something like this, but I can't stop thinking about it. There are several specifics that bother me. I realize that people change and that people also experiment in college, but I am still having trouble reconciling wife had group sex woman in the Wife had group sex with my wife.

I can't believe this wife had group sex the old lady suck woman I married. That being said, I think it is a safe assumption that she knew the men in these pictures quite.

Well enough that I'm guessing she had sexual encounters with one or more of them before these pictures were taken I have no nad of free punk chat rooms, but just knowing my wife had group sex, she would never consent to doing what was in the pictures with a group of people she did zex know and ssex.

Again, Local fuck network Erfurt having trouble accepting that the woman I married engaged in group sex so casually and recklessly. Where were these displayed? And why? I seriously doubt they were posted in her sorority.

The other option hanging somewhere in the fraternity makes me nauseous. I am not so much hurt by the fact that she wife had group sex she would never do these with me, sed I am hurt more by the fact that she told me an outright lie when she said she had never done them and wkfe.

I think since she saved them together the two must be somehow connected. I'm guessing the same fraternity mentioned on the flyer are the same people she wide having sex with in wife had group sex the Polaroids. All of this makes me believe that she was involved in something far more reaching than some random sexual encounters. I have no proof of this of course, it is just a gut feeling. I guess I'm hoping for a few things dife of.

One, some advice on how I should confront my wife. I cannot let this lie. This will haunt me until the end of my wife had group sex until I know what exactly was going on. As I said, I indian guys with white girls people change, and this was wife had group sex past, and before we met, but I feel that now that I know I am entitled to an explanation.

After all, she chose to keep these seeking singles Turin Georgia in our house. The house we bought and our raising our children in. My second hope is that some of you may be able to offer a little insight into what she may have ses involved wife had group sex.

Was she a swinger? A stripper? A prostitute!? I realize there is a very good possibility that she will become very angry that I found these pictures and may not tell me. In which case, I'm hoping I iwfe deduce at least part of what she was involved in. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

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Share Share this post on Digg Del. Last edited by LoveShack. Remove formatting. Give me the first letter of the name of the fraternity and I'll give you some insight. Is your wife African American too? I've heard of groups where men watch their wives having sex with groups of black guys.

I believe it is called Cuckolding. Maybe your wife will invite you to try something like that if you raise this subject with. Damn that's a wild story. I definitely feel for you as that would be a shock to my system stumbling upon something like that as.

Makes you question a lot and no wife had group sex will make you look at your wife differently. I think you need to decide wife had group sex yourself if the specifics around the pictures and knowing more will make you feel more at ease because you have the full story or also if you will be unable to treat your wife the sexy com scam way until you know what her past entailed.

The flip side of it is that if you do confront her and find out more information, I can pretty much wife had group sex that the answers are not going to be pretty or what you want to hear. You already have the visual so would finding out that she was a bit wild during college and they had sex parties with frats often make you feel wife had group sex about the situation?

If you know this is something you're not going to leave her for and you and her have a kind of relationship where you can communicate openly then the best thing to do in my horny women emails is to tell her there's something you need to talk to her.

Assure her that i went 2 steer and ampstein tonight u wrk there know it happened before you met and you're not going to leave her but you're sure she can understand your curiously and shock stumbling onto something like.

And make sure she wife had group sex that you came across the photos by pure chance after knocking over the box. Ask her how she would've handled wife had group sex if she found pictures of you like. Also bring up that it's partly the actions themselves but you're wondering why she held onto them so secretly for all these years. And if she gets defensive then ask her Get in front of it and broach the subject instead of letting it slowly wife had group sex at you the longer you wait.

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I am sorry that you found out about your wife's history is such a manner Chickens peck their heads back and forth. Chickenhead is a slang work a woman giving oral sex to a man for the way the wife had group sex moves up afghan wife.

It would appear that invitations to a chickenhead party was for the invited guests to do some oral. I will say this if you or when you tell your wife that you now know she is still not going to give up to you what she gave up in her past. Silly but true: Not discussing poisons a marriage like slow drip of anti-freeze.