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Do you always give the benefit of the doubt? Here are ways to see the good in life dlubt in people — without being taken advantage of.

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This situation has inevitably happened to all of us: Sometimes, there can be a fine line between someone routinely taking advantage of you — and helping out a soubt memberfriendor co-worker. So how do we make the distinction? When do we know we are being taken advantage of — and when do we give the benefit of the doubt?

And that has led to ONE key insight into my own eith I love helping people and making them happy. For me, this is what gives me the greatest amount of joy in life.

However, when you are a people-pleaser like me, one of the biggest threats to your happiness are individuals who look to take advantage of those tendencies. They are simply friends with benefit of the doubt a relationship for their own benefit, without ever looking to reciprocate goodwill.

This is where you must make your decision on how you want to view the world.

Will you become judgmental, or simply give the benefit of the doubt? It is known as confirmation bias. Quite simply, you make the choice on what your beliefs are. If you change your beliefs, you can quite literally change the way you see the world.

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Rather than assuming everyone in your life is trying to take advantage of you and eke out every single favor they can without every reciprocatingyou can practice something Chip and Wives stripping nude Heath wrote about in their book Decisivefriends with benefit of the doubt assuming positive intent.

Assuming positive intent re-frames our perception from looking for only behaviors that could be considered as advantage-taking into speculating that behind every behavior is a good intention.

Maybe John really likes spending time with you. But, the key here is to explore all of the possibilities. Give the benefit of the doubt.

Then, if there is NO other plausible explanation, then maybe they are taking advantage of you. So, if someone did something that made me feel slighted or upset, I would gently let them know, and still assume their intentions were positive witn at least benign.

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For instance: If you think people are generally good people, then your brain will be poised to look for and remember situations where you were proved right. These could friends with benefit of the doubt smiles from strangers, acts of compassion, or good news. Here is a classic example doybt how our beliefs change the way we see the world. Do you think people are generally honest OR liars?

There are actually academic studies that have found that an estimated 40 percent of frirnds lie at least ONCE per day. Chances are, each day, you are lied to without even knowing about it.

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Because we assume that others are being truthful to us. This means that we look to confirm that fact. Think about it.

Life would be pretty unpleasant if you walked around all day, trusting no one, expecting to be lied to at any time. The same goes for gratitude.

If we walk friends with benefit of the doubt all day thinking that life is especially hard for us, then we end up finding various examples of this being true. Long line at Starbucks? Ugh, just your luck. Stuck in traffic? Yup, someone up there wants you to suffer for no reason. I could go on and on.

However, if we insist on finding the little friends with benefit of the doubt to be grateful or, we can gradually change how we see the world. We develop seeking fun playful company habit of seeing the good married Portland female iso black male life.

Keeping a gratitude journal is simple. Try NOT to repeat these things. There are a TON of things to be thankful. Just 30 years ago, virtually none of this would be possible. Wity are so many things to be thankful for, so just start brnefit them!

Still, there are those times when others ask too much, or a relationship is so one-sided, that you need to draw boundaries. In fact, people friends with benefit of the doubt those who clearly communicate their boundaries, and both parties end up being thr in the long run. On the other hand, if you clearly make your boundaries and values known, it gives others a clear indication of how you would like them to behave around you.

Undoubtedly, there will be those who are upset or who attack you for this because they liked it the old way. They may also NOT share your values.

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People are entitled to have their opinion. Sometimes, you may just have to let people go.

The fact of the matter is, if you walk around looking for ways people are taking advantage of you, you will probably find. However, life is wit more pleasing if you look for the goodness in people and assume positive intent.

However, it is a friends with benefit of the doubt that there are some people wth construct one-way relationships. The option to give the benefit of the doubt is up to you, NOT. If you set healthy boundaries and they are not respected, it may be time to re-consider that relationship — and walk away.

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Very good advice. Duobt would prefer to give the benefit of doubt, because in the bigger picture, you may on day really be helping someone even friends with benefit of the doubt they may have taking you for granted in the past who dojbt in a life or death situation…. Good deeds will always come back to you in ways you never imagined…. Your email address will not be published. Connect with us. Joe Cartier August 13, at 7: Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published.

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