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Thank you very much! Thank you for this article. I have spent the past couple of toinght reading various articles trying to better understand WTF is going on in my head right now!! A recent incident in my life has sent me back more than a decade emotionally. I am overwhelmed by my "crazy angry behavior" that I thought I had worked through years ago. Your article forced me to see within and beyond my current self.
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The negative emotions that come with facing a fear makes some of us behave in ways so that we may avoid these negative emotions. You are correct. Indeed, procrastination, indecision, addiction are some of the varied ways emotional avoidance manifests. The Good Psychologist is very interesting to me. As a retired empty-nester married to a woman tonigght out of the house and enjoying her activities so much she has giing time and energy left over for him, I have had my imagination run wild.
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Even though I tell myself to "just feel it", it seems that I'm automatically avoiding the negative sensations.
Negative effect of avoidance of negative emotions doesn't make negative emotions a good thing. While it is unhealthy to suppress them, you can't say the same about eliminating them at the source.
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I remember once I was feeling low, and refused to be alone for a couple of weeks- I constantly made dates with friends and planned activities.
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Finally, when I found myself alone, I experienced a very deep sadness that lasted a whole afternoon. After I let myself feel that sadness, it released its grip and I was able to be. I've definitely been doing this with all negative feelings apart from sadness. For some reason sadness is acceptable, but anger, envy, fear and cheep call girls are not.
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